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"Hope sees the invisible, feels the intangible and achieves the impossible"

The other’s

December 29, 2005

Quote : "People’s fault is so plain & clear in my eyes yet I am so blind to my countless faults" - author unknown

As I constantly remind myself that it is so easy to spot people’s fault & so difficult to spot my own, I found that it is actually a norm among people around us and in every event there is.

I recalled during my wedding preparations in Jan this year.. many comments, ‘advices’ and the like were poured to us, pointing out this should has been done & MUST be done.. - and it was less ‘merciful’ that it was unintentional and just plain forgotten. It could have been a stressful event if I am not by nature who can just "let go" as long as I know my conscience is clear & I already did my best to my knowledge. For the past 2 weekends, attending my sis-in-law’s wedding, I found the very folks who gave us advice on what should have been done & not done - have not do what should have been done cos really - unintentionally forget! I thought that as very amusing that how the very people who have the most "say" seems to be less forgiving to other’s mistakes while expect other’s to be VERY understanding to their mistake as unintentional.

Which again brings me back to remind myself time & again that - realised that it is so easy to see other’s fault so let’s not ‘pick’ on things, why don’t I use that ‘energy’ by correcting my own realised & unrealised (yet) faults?

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